My remarks were not intended to cause upset, simply to point out that in order to collaborate effectively, we need something to work on. Past experience brings me to have very little faith in Ancestry.com. I hope that with the help of others here on Wiki, you will be able to build a far better tree, one that has all names and dates verified.
All too often I see 'anonymous' has joined, but offered nothing, no names, dates, parents, locations, not a thing, yet they seem to expect instant results. Generally, members on Wiki are very happy to help you in every way, but the key word is collaboration, unless there is co-operation from both sides, it cannot work.