Hi, Deb Durham... I took your advice and edited my question removing the content you mentioned. I am used to physical conference rooms and websites that are not as concerned about privacy, and extremely polite manners, and will do everything short of physically wrestling each other to the floor debating issues until agreement is reached. Then every one that just about murdered each other, happily goes out to lunch together and fights again over who will have the honor of picking up the check. :-) The honor code of WikiTree I fully agree with, but at age 65, with so much of the "other way" under by belt, I simply do not see the more fine nuances of manners used here, and sometimes I blunder. Sorry! I will learn to spot the little infractions before I step on them. Thanks, Steve