I found this https://findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GRid=140353387&ref=acom
Possible dates and places for Ebenezer and his wife:
BIRTH 15 FEB 1814 • Greenfield, Massachusetts
DEATH 03 JAN 1844 • New Hamburg, Dutchess, New York, USA
Sarah Ann Doughty
BIRTH ABT. 1826 • Yarmouth, Cumberland, Maine, United States
DEATH BEF 1900 • Elmira, Chemung County, New York
This could be for their daughter's wedding:
"Wisconsin, County Marriages, 1836-1911," database, FamilySearch(https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:XRPF-382 : 3 June 2016), Eben Smeads in entry for Malcolm Henry Reuben and Josephine Amelia Smeads, 05 Jan 1865; citing , La Crosse, Wisconsin, United States, Wisconsin Historical Society, Madison; FHL microfilm 1,292,003.
Hope this helps :)