I have a number of ghost stories in my family. Most were recorded by my grandfather. Some told to me by my mother. One is my experience. None are scary. Here's are synopses of some of them.
The death of Mary (Kitt) Winebrenner (Kitt-54)
Mary and "Uncle John" (I have not figured out who he was yet) were ill at the same time. Mary died. (1856.) Her family grieved. She came back to life, and said that she got as far as the river, and an angel met her and said she had to go back and comfort her family. And, by the way, she saw Uncle John across the river. She said please not to grieve for her, as she did not want to have to die too many times. Then she died again. The family refrained from grieving, but sent someone over to uncle John's who reported back that he had died 5 min. before my great-great-grandmother had.
Edith (Forrey) Stoner (Forrey-12)
My grandmother was diagnosed with cancer in 1960. They operated, to find that it had spread, and was terminal. They almost lost her during the operation. When she woke up, she reported that she had seen Jesus, and that he had given her a choice to come with him, or to go back to her family. She chose to go back, as she and her husband had just built and moved into their retirement home on the ocean. And she didn't know the cancer was terminal. The doctor gave her 2 months to live. She lived 7 months.
Peter W. Stoner (Stoner-632)
When Edith knew she was going to die, she instructed her husband to remarry, and gave him a list. He chose one (her neice) (Grace Van Ornum, Van_Ornum-6) and she agreed to marry him. Grace died about 15 years later. After Grace died, for a full year, each night when Peter went to bed, one of his wives (they alternated) would come and sit by his bedside and talk to him, until he fell asleep. After a year, the routine ended. Grace did not come back. Edith would come from time to time.
Lois (Stoner) Gardner (Stoner-631)
My mother had an ability to see or feel spirits at times. After her father died, she said she'd glimpse him occasionally. She would often feel the spirit of her cat on her bed after it had died. After one of her dogs died, she could often hear it's collar jingling in the back seat of the car. One time, she went to pick up a friend who had a very friendly Siamese cat. On the way over, my mother was aware of the dog's spirit in the back seat of her car. When she got there, and her friend opened the door to get in, the cat jumped in to say hello, as it was wont to do. Then it froze, looked towards the back seat, all it's hair stood on end, and it jumped out of the car and ran home as fast as it could. It saw the dog spirit, too.
Several years before my mother died, one of her friends had told her about an oak tree on the west side of Hwy. 101, a little south of Petaluma, near the dairy, which had a growth on it that made the trunk of the tree look like a woman's bust. My mother looked for that tree every time she drove down to the City. She couldn't ever see it. She told me about it, and asked me to look for it, and I could never see it either. My first trip to the City after she died, I saw the tree. I figure she showed it to me.