Hi Gillian. Don't feel bad. If they have a prefix or suffix in the first name, this is always moved. If they went by the nickname of Reverend for instance, this can always be added to the nickname if the PM wants to. For names such as Baby Smith, this should either be Unknown or Unnamed Infant every time. I know it is hard, but we have to remove or revise the names from the first name field since this is not the correct place for nicknames.
751 sounds like a less emotional suggestion. Thanks for your hard work :-)