Perhaps, here's a 1860 Census showing Maria at age 11 living in Poughkeepsie, or at least Duchess County.
https://www.familysearch.org/search/records/index#count=20&query=%2Bgivenname%3A%22Maria%20Barbara%22~%20%2Bsurname%3AEschleman~%20%2Bbirth_place%3APoughkepsey%2CNY~%20%2Bbirth_year%3A1849-1849%20%2Bfather_givenname%3AUlrich~%20%2Bfather_surname%3AEschleman~
