My comment about illegitimacy was facetious. I'm sorry, but your answer does not respond to the point. It remains ridiculous for the profile to managed this way and I have yet to see a credible answer for why that cannot be changed.
Besides, I do not have a private wife. Her name is Barbara Schroer Beezley, we've been together for 50 years, I am proud of that and expect it to be known.