Great discussion on clan names for married women here - I still have a question that I would appreciate some clarification on...
My situation - My mother's maiden name is McLane and she descends from the McLeans of Duarte so that would be my ancestral clan. However, for 25 years I was married to a Ross and my husband and I claimed Ross during our marriage. Now that the marriage is ended, I have given his family back the tartans, pins, and other things we had accumulated that related to Ross because it was his family and not really mine. But from what I've been reading, it sounds like I could continue to use Ross or go back to McLeans if I wanted to since the divorce - am I thinking correctly here???
And to add to the trouble, I've remarried a Kidd descendant and I have yet to figure out what clan that falls under so do my husband - since I originally wrote this my husband tells me Kidd is Norwegian/Viking in origin, not Scottish so would not be clan so I just need clarification on whether I stay with my McLean's, or since I was Ross for 25 years do I stay there? What is the protocol with divorce???