I found a Robert Moses Wood Married Julia Frances Clary.
Robert was born abt 1852, in New Jersey, Julia abt 1852 in new jersey.
they had Oakley Wood oct 28, 1872 In Jersey City, Jersey
1860 census Robert was 8 years old and lived in Bergen New Jersey
1870 Census Robert was 18 and lived in Jersey City
1880 Census robert lived their still and was head of the house.
1860, 1870, and 1880 census Julia lived in Jersey city
they also had Lydia, Claus, and robert wood,
They also in 1880 had a cousin of Robert living with them John H. French
Roberts father was born in England and mother was born in New York according to the 1880 census.
Robert was also a Rail Road conductor
According to the 1880 census Julias parents were both from ireland
In 1860 census Julia was living with Michael and Nora clary plus kids
Daniel, Margret, Hannah and Kate
I hope this is the same robert your looking for