I am sure you have been able to find your iformation by now - or you may no longer by looking at these forums - but just in case. This is her obituary from the Baltimore Sun April 3 & 4, 2003:
On April 1, 2003, KATHERINE R. (nee Miller), beloved wife of the late Edwin W. James, Jr., devoted mother of Edwin W. James, III, Patrick Michael James, Margaret Deborah Wess and Mary Elizabeth Radomski. Also survived by six grandchildren and many great-grandchildren, one brother and several sisters. Friends are invited to call at the Burgee-Henss-Seitz Funeral Home, Inc., 3631 Falls Road, on Thursday from 7 to 9 and Friday from 3 to 5 and 7 to 9 P.M. Services on Saturday at 10 A.M. Interment in Holy Redeemer Cemetery. Those desiring may make contributions to the Union Memorial Hospital Foundation, C/O Dr. Stanley Walker, 333 N. Calvert St., Suite 107, Baltimore, MD. 21218
I also saw a social security record that said her birth date was Sep 29, 1929.