52 Ancestors Week 10 - Strong Woman [closed]

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Week 10: Strong Woman
AJC - March is Women's History Month, so what better way to start than with the prompt of "Strong Woman." What female in your family tree has shown remarkable strength (either physical or emotional)? Tell her story.

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Amy Crowe was one day late with the prompt. I assume she was at the Rootstech conference just like everyone else was...
I know she was.

It took me a while to focus on one person this week. In my mind, all of the pioneer women were candidates. I zoned in on the daughter of a notable historical figure. Or should I say "notorious". I chose [[Elizabeth Lake|Lake-264]] who was my 9th great grandmother. Her mother Alice Lake was convicted and hanged for being a witch. The life that Elizabeth was able to carve out for herself in the aftermath is very inspiring. She is my "Strong Woman" for this week's prompt.... http://www.libbyonthelabel.ca/2018/03/52-ancestors-week-10-strong-woman.html#more

I think I posted this in the wrong place. Sorry...long day!
My 2nd great gramma was very strong. At a very young age she moved further west WI MN CA OR. Her husband was a crook so she was able to divorce him then her 2nd husband Ed Williams had TB and died of it, and she still had young children who she had to farm out to family members and then 'do the rounds'  all the time.
10th... without saying too much... my grandmother was a small lady but so strong in her resilience in bringing up 6 daughters alone!

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The "Strong Woman" award in my family has to go to Rachel (McCartney) Freeth.  She was married at the age of 16 to a man that was more than twice her age, caught up in the turmoil of his murder trial and conviction; yet stuck by him all the years he was incarcerated and held the family together through poverty, homelessness, and the deaths of all but 3 of their children.   

by Vicky Majewski G2G6 Mach 9 (91.5k points)
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I am going to tell the story of two women ... one descends from the other but are separated by several centuries.  

The first one is Anna Stenger wife of Peter Walter who lived in eastern France during the 30 years war.  My 4 x great grandfather, her great great grandson wrote a chronicle about his family and the glass makers of Eastern France in the 1700s.  To see an English Translation of part of this work go to

 https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Space:Translation_of_Jean_Georges_dit_Chambre_Walter_Chronicle

Here is Anna's story https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Stenger-199

"These are my recollections of the earliest accounts that my ancestors recounted, concerning the glassworks of Munzthal founded by the direction of Pierre WALTER, our ancestor: This Pierre WALTER made glass at Munzthal at the time of the Swedish War, a war which lasted 30 years from 1618 to 1648. Also, he worked at Munzthal toward the end of the Swedish War. He had five (5) children of which the youngest, Adam Walter, had not yet been weaned. The mother Anna STENGER lived with her infants at Soucht. At that time in history, there was a famine in the region and the villages were all uninhabited. All the inhabitants had fled France during the terrible Thirty Year War against Sweden with the exception of a few who were hidden in the forest. There was neither bread nor livestock in all the region (the potato did not exist yet on our continent), and also, we totally lacked food. The people lived from hunting and fishing, because the wild game and the fishes were in abundance in the wooded regions. That was the reason the infants could not eat this type of food as the adults could, therefore, the majority of the children and infants died from lack of bread and milk. Our elders have told me that the wife of Pierre WALTER(Anna STENGER), our great-grandmother, went to Strasbourg to buy bread. She took with her, her youngest infant, Adam WALTER, who had not yet been weaned, leaving the four others at Soucht. When she returned with the bread, her servant had left for Munzthal with the four children to see their father, who was making glass there. The mother went on ahead to Munzthal to take the bread to her children. When she arrived on the lower side of the forest that separated Soucht from Munzthal, she saw her servant arrive with her children.. The mother asked: "Where is little Anne?" The servant was crying and told her that the infant was dead, lying below a tree on the high side. One can imagine how hard the pain was for that mother in learning that news. After that first infant died, the three others died also. Only the youngest survived, Adam WALTER, from whom all the Walters of the region descend."

Later in the same work, he makes this note about the death of Adam Walter her son  "The 2nd of February, 1688 was buried Adam WALTER, master glassmaker. He expired piously the 1st of February about 3 o'clock, and was buried near the "grand cross on the side of the entrance of the church." He lived in marriage for 21 years, he had 6 children: Etienne, Nicolas, Pierre, Martin (who was my grandfather), Ursule and Marguerite. At his death, his children were all still very young. The great-grandmother (Anna STENGER) continued to direct the glassworks with her children until 1700. Then the glassworks disappeared and the new glass manufactory was constructed in Meisenthal in 1702. Often I have seen that date carved on the ancient glassworks.

So this woman braved a war torn land, travelling over 80 miles to try to get food for her children.  All of the children who had not been weaned died of starvation due to the 30 years war.  She outlived both her husband and the son who she had taken with her on her travel because he had not been weaned yet.  So she took over the running of the glass works until the grandsons opened a new one.  

Formidable woman in the 1600s now moving forward in history to my grandmother, a direct descendant of hers.  Dorothy (Walter) Pennie https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Walter-3003  raised 3 small children to wonderful adults by herself after her husband left to go bowling and never returned.  No idea what happened to him.

She worked for years for Famous-Barr which was later acquired by Macy's.  That is pretty much a minimum wage job and she kept her family fed and clothed.  She was an optimist and always saw the best in people.  She had a big heart and loved her children, grandchildren, and many great grandchildren.  

So both women experienced great emotional pain through loss in their lives but fought through it to raise their families and provide for their families.   

They are an inspiration to me. 

by Laura Bozzay G2G6 Pilot (832k points)
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I think any of the women who lived through America's early history must have been strong women. But I'd like to pinpoint my third cousin 8 times removed - Deborah Sampson Gannett (Sampson-307). She disguised herself as a boy Continental soldier and fought in the Revolutionary War for 17 months. When her sex was discovered she was discharged. She eventually got a military pension on account of the intercession of Paul Revere. She and I share a grandfather, William Bradford whose arrival on the Mayflower has had a profound influence on both our lives.

by Susan Fitzmaurice G2G6 Mach 6 (62.1k points)
What an interesting girl - to pretend to be a man so she could fight in a war and survive!!
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52 Ancestors for 52 Weeks - Week 10 Strong Woman

It was hard for me to choose because of the many ancestors in my family by I finally picked Athelinda Pelton Hess [[Pelton-858|Athelinda Pelton]]

Athelinda was born 4 Dec 1822 in Oxford, Canada, the daughter of Samuel Pelton and Rhonda Rouse. She was only 16 when she became the bride of Walter B Hess on 26 Nov 1838. Walter was originally born in Otsego, New York, but moved to Canada with his parents where he met Athelinda, who would become the first of his five wives.

Her first child, Mary was born while they still lived in Canada. They decided that they wanted to live in Illinois so they left Canada and traveled by Conestoga Wagon. The trip was taken in slow steps because Athelinda was caring for the new baby. They traveled through Detroit and crossed Belle Island by ferry boat.

Their destination was Momence, Illinois, which really did not exist at that time, except for a tavern, and several cabins which were located about a mile east of the present town. They arrived in Momence around March 6, 1839, and settle in on government land along the south shore of the Kankakee River. 

Live was not easy in this new frontier. There was grain to grind, cloth to weave, candles to make and storing of food.

In 1840 Athelinda was looking forward to her second child, when little Mary died on 11 Oct 1840. Elmena was born two months later on 30 Dec 1940. No time for grieving as there was another baby to take care of. Then Jacob was born on 1 March 1842. She was busy with these two little babies and getting used to these new area.

But her husband had become Sheriff and there were dangerous gangs in the area. Horse thieves were stealing their breeded houses and counterfeiters were keeping him busy.

Joyful news in their house, though as Rhoda was born in February of 1844. But their house was darkened that year in August when she died. She still had two rambukuous boys and one little girl to take care of. On 28 July 1846, Charles (Charlie) was born. He was going to be a lot like his father. Two years later little Alice was born on 14 Jan 1850.  It was getting to be quite regular in the Hess house - a baby every other year. Athelinda has her hands full now. Three boys and 2 girls in ten years. But in 1852, her and her husband were surprised when they had a set of twin boys. Wallace and Walter were born on 18 June 1852, and three years later another set of twins, a girl and a boy, Emma and Emory, born on 20 Jan 1855. 

So Athelinda had 11 children from 1938 to 1855, and lost two of them. She married at 16 years old, and traveled into a new country. 

All of this while being the pioneer couple of Momence. How strong she must have been to go through all of this.

Then on 22 May 1858 Athelinda Pelton Hess died, leaving her children as her legacy. She would have been proud of what they accomplished. She left Doctors, firemen, lawyers, policemen, people in all wakes of life.

She is probably one of the strongest women I never knew!

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by Cheryl Hess G2G Astronaut (1.8m points)
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Given the hardships of the past I think that most of my female ancestors were strong women. I would probably consider https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Carr-7983 she managed her inheritance from her husband, discreetly.

She was the "poor" widow women at the end of the street and folk would kindly give her the odd cooper to help her out. Every week the rent man came by on his rounds, the last house he called at was the widow's place. Unknown to the folk in the street she owned the house in the street - all of them and the local shop. Nothing poor about her. Shame her son lost the lot only a short time after her death.
by Janet Wild G2G6 Pilot (331k points)
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This weeks choice is great grandmother  Eugénie .  She and her husband homesteaded in Northern Minnesota - no easy task. Following her husbands death, she operated the farm and, during the Great Depression, raised her children and a number of grandchildren as well. 

by Jim Wiborg G2G6 Mach 7 (75.9k points)

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