I ran into this. I merged mine into the one I thought most correct. Unfortunately, the other one is the one that was attached to the parents. Since the profile managers disagree on whether the child belongs to the parents, the merge has been pending for years. I investigated, and I think the problem is multiple people with the fathers name, but the one on Wiki IS the one that should have been the father. I sent a message to the profile manager and posted research. Nothing has happened, so now when I run into a person that is a match in my Gedcom, I do two things, I refuse the merge, and I don't add my person. I just leave that hole there in my tree, and work around it. If it is going to be a major connection to a big part of the wiki tree I just stop my tree there. I figure sooner or later someone will make the connection for me, and I won't have to worry about it. I also don't add descendants down past 1900 or so, so if my cousins come along and want to add their family, they can have all the joy of doing that!