52 Ancestors Week 17 - Cemeteries

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AJC - Going to a cemetery is one of my favorite things to do. Cemetery visiting has been a part of my life for as long as I can remember. When I was little, we would take a day trip to where different relatives were buried; sometimes, we'd even have a little picnic there. (It wasn't until I was older that I realized that not everyone did that!)

Do you have a favorite tombstone of one of your ancestors? Maybe you could share how you found where an ancestor is buried or a clue that you got from a tombstone or cemetery records.
in The Tree House by Robynne Lozier G2G Astronaut (1.3m points)
Wow, my family did that & I've carried it on.  Well the picnic part only once.
My first real date with my future husband. He had asked me to spend the following saturday with him after our meeting a few days prior and talking on the phone a few times and an hour dinner one night just because he saw me out and about. I told him I would have liked to but couldnt because I was going to have lunch with my grandparents. He said well maybe afterwards? I said no because it would take about an hour 45 to get there an hour or two there then another couple hours to get back. Then he said well, the drive there and back then...he could drive me there and then he could pick me up a couple hours later for the drive home, because he was going out of town for 2 weeks and really wanted to have a date before he left... so id remember him... I told him... Well this is awkward... I guess I need to come clean. Saturday is the day I have planned for for awhile I called it lunch with my grandparents but really... I am going to the cemetery to clean up the graves  of my ancestors. I have the caretaker meeting me at 10 to give me a map to the one grave I dont know the location of... (Last month we had had a memorial and burial there and I had seen the other graves were nasty. ) He said oh thats good, then if you are ok with it I will drive and I can help and we can talk all the whole time. I thought you meant living grandparents. I said no I just felt it was important to get it done before memorial day and since my mom had died the previous september as next oldest interested party it was now on me. He said  so...yes or no? I said well I can hardly believe you want a date in a cemetery, but I guess.... So Saturday arrived and 8 a.m he shows up and we go. Great convo, great helpcarrying supplies, and when I was cleaning the first grave he said oh wait a minute and he ran to the car and came back with a bag and a cooler. Yes, the man had brought lunch so we could have lunch with my grand parents!!! I laughed so hard I said whoa dude you have no idea. This is my gramma evalett. Over there is her husband up and over three rows is my great gramma and wayyyy over there is her husband who died really young so they are seperate, and finally two rows above gramma angie is my ggreat gramma also Evalett...Collins who is Angies mom! Do you think you brought enough??? I was cracking up when he sat down the cooler and looked inside and said...well maybe half a sandwich and a chicken wing each??? Totally serious...  what was a genealogy buff/ family historian to do? We married one year later one the anniversary of that first date... April 7. And forgot to mention he introduced himself to each grandparent as we cleaned the grave...
I know this is an old contest, but I have a great cemetery story myself, so I was led to read this.  What a FABULOUS story!! He must have really liked you a lot!!  You got a good one!  I laughed and laughed as I read it.  Yep, cemeteries are pretty cool places... and many of them were built with flat slabs, so family COULD do exactly what you did...... have a picnic!
Thank you, Lynn. Yes, it was very clear we would get along great!
I have loved old cemeteries since living in Massachusetts, where they are much more interesting than the green expanses with flat stones we had in Florida.  

One of my third great-grandfathers (Armistead-417) is actually buried in someone's front yard in Georgia. We were a bit nervous about barging into the small iron-gated plot but were assured by the neighbor across the street (the owner's father) that she wouldn't mind.  Also, I believe Georgia has a statute regarding granting access to family members who wish to care for graves on private property.  Still, I always try to seek permission first.

There is no grave marker, but the plot contains several interesting stones of other family members.
And that's a great story.  Yes, he's definitely a keeper! :)
17. Cemeteries are creepy and I stay away!

26 Answers

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[https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/40583072?search=true]

 

Favorite tombstone and obituary of my favorite ancestor. Back in the 1970's, I did pull off Rt 81 at Port Republic while traveling between duty stations to visit this grave, and had a good VA. ham sandwich and a cold ice tea in the parking lot of this church.
by Rodney Long G2G6 Pilot (871k points)
My, what an obituary!
WOW!!!
That is a wonderful remembrence
Old newspapers give so much more detail than today's ones.  Wonderful read, cheers.

BTW did you realise the FAG and article birth year are different?
Yes Kylie, the older newspapers had much more information, and were much more enjoyable to read. I did notice the birth year difference. All of our family history that my great grandmother had, and my grandmother had in her bible agree with the FAG date. Thank-you for the comment.
Fascinating story...thanks for sharing.  I'm intrigued by his military service vis-a-vis his membership in the Brethren, a peace church.  Is that possibly why he joined as a teamster?  Or did he join the Brethren after the war?
A good question D. I studied the issue for several years before I came to a result I was comfortable with. Conrad was of the Brethren faith before the Civil War. In fact his grandparents, Isaac and Barbara Long, were part of the 13 original charter members of the Mill Creek Church of the Brethren, Port Republic Virginia. (see Church history). During the Civil War there was an event called the Rockingham Rebellion, where the governor of Virginia was compelling people even of faith to enter military service because of a man power shortage for the South. As you probably know, the Brethren did not believe in the Southern cause. And yes, they offered jobs as teamsters to those men who objected to fighting. That is where I think Conrad and some of the other family members come into the Civil War.
Thanks, Rodney, that makes sense. I'd like to read more about the Rockingham Rebellion...amateur Civil War scholar but hadn't heard of that one before. It must've been a difficult situation for your ancestor. Pacifists in the Amana Colonies, Iowa, mostly did not fight but supported the Union with supplies - foodstuffs, blankets, etc. I did see one photograph of a soldier from Amana who enlisted in WWI.
Thank-you. Also during the Civil War period, many folks for different reasons including faith went to the Western part of Virginia to get away from the Shenandoah Valley (Rockingham County) which was the breadbasket for the South. The Union troops came though the area burning barns and houses.  West Virginia then became a State of its own around 1863.
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Growing up I spent a lot of time in cemeteries. My dad kept the grass cut at one and eventually became the cemetery commissioner for the town (a small New England town). We would have picnics there. Then, when we would go back to ma dad's home town in New Brunswick, Canada, we would have picnics in one of the cemeteries. Lots of locals did.

I don't think I have a favorite tombstone. Too many to choose from. I do have one I would love to eliminate. At one point someone replaced the marker for my third great grandfather. On it, the had engraved that he had been a Captain in the Black Watch although he mustered out as a private. The 20th Century stone is frequently cited as proof that he was a captain. Drives me nuts sometimes.
by Doug McCallum G2G6 Pilot (534k points)
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My mother's (https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Stoner-631 ) gravestone is my favorite family gravestone, carved in limestone by my ex-husband. It has the theme of one of the paintings she did (a hobby, but she was good) of butterflies and caterpillars, as symbols of rebirth into a different realm. I'll have to go take a picture of it and post it here, but there is one posted on Find a Grave that someone else took: https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/24121293.

There is another "gravestone", wood, actually, which has been my favorite since I discovered it when I was about 10 years old. It is not family, and not in a graveyard, so I don't know if it actually counts for this challenge, but this is a good way of publicizing it and possibly finding his family if they are looking for his whereabouts. The grave is for William D. Miller (https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Miller-37788 ), born in Maine about 1832, and died on the Mendocino coast in 1890, buried in the "pygmy forest" in Albion, Calif. He was apparently a logger. When I was a child, I was told by an old man who lived in the area (when I asked if he knew anything about the grave) that he had heard rumor from his elders that the fellow had died of syphilis, and they were superstitious and wouldn't bury him in the graveyard. This is a good story, but I doubt that it's true.

I made a profile for William Miller. If anyone knows of any family that may be looking for him, pass on the link.

Grave of Wm. D. Miller

Grave of William D. Miller

Headstone for Wm. D. Miller

Gravestone of William D. Miller

by Alison Gardner G2G6 Mach 8 (83.6k points)
edited by Alison Gardner
+7 votes
I will do this for sure.
by Living Barnett G2G6 Pilot (502k points)
+12 votes
No specific tombstone, but I gravitate to the ones for children. Angels, lambs, teddy bears and various things that are cute and make you smile and sad at the same time. I have an Uncle Sonny who died when my mom was 4. I know the cemetery he is buried in, but never found the grave. If I found it, I would rebury him between my grandmother and where I will be.  Though he lived barely a year, he was always remembered as part of the family and I feel very close to him. 'Never forgotten, always loved" I would inscribe.
by Susan Fitzmaurice G2G6 Mach 6 (62.1k points)
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I wrote about my 4th gg mother's brother, who has a crazy burial story. I'm glad I found him because he led an interesting life. 4th gg father died at an early age, leaving my 4th gg mother a widow at age 39. She had 10 children, too. Her brother, Henry Veitch,  [[Veitch-284]], seems to have stepped in to be involved with some of  the nieces and nephew's lives. I did find a picture of his tombstone, which is not where Find a Grave says it is... http://www.libbyonthelabel.ca/2018/04/52-ancestors-week-17-cemetery.html#more

by Libby Park G2G6 Mach 1 (18.6k points)
edited by Libby Park
Really interesting, Libby. Your family really moved around and we're in some unusual places.
I was surprised to discover some of these characters! Makes me want to dig more. My own family is pretty boring. lol
Fascinating! Thanks for sharing. I bet most of us have some interesting characters, if we dig deep enough. Trying to find out more about a mysterious great-uncle (?) myself...
+11 votes

When I was younger we would go to the cemetery to put flowers (cut from the garden) on my grandfather's grave on Decoration Day. Sometimes we would also go to the old abandoned overgrown cemetery across the road. It was scary at that age! It did get me interested in learning about ancestors. The cemetery was cleaned up by the DAR in the early 1970s, and it, along with the cemetery across the road, tell the story of Samuel Sands and his descendants. A story in pictures...

Samuel Sands was the reason for cleaning up the cemetery https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Sands-350

Kay_Sands_Photos-6.jpg

where his son Ephraim is also buried

Ephraim Sands Headstone

with his wife Abigail

Abigail (Ayer) Sands Headstone

and their son Daniel

Daniel Sands Headstone

and his wife Eunice

Eunice (Salisbury) Sands Headstone

Their son George married a Whiting and is buried across the road, where one stone is used for the family plot with names on each side

Sands Headstone

Whiting Headstone (other side is Sands)

and their son Guy Whiting Sands is buried

Guy Whiting Sands Headstone

by Kay Knight G2G6 Pilot (599k points)
+12 votes
It must have been really hard being a monumental mason and carving the headstone for your only grand-daughter. It's been really hard writing this one. https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/McMichael-230 is the grand-daughter.

There is a photograph at the end of the blog, but the writing is quite hard to read.

https://feetuptimetothink.blogspot.co.nz/2018/04/52-ancestors-week-17-cemetery-jean.html
by Fiona McMichael G2G6 Pilot (209k points)
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I don't have much to do with cemeteries and I dont have any good cemetery stories. But I did find one that I thought was interesting. This grave stone is for my Aunt Dorothy who died in 2012.

The bottom half of the gravestone has not yet been engraved. No doubt that will eventually be filled up when her widow does eventually pass. He will be celebrating his 99th birthday next month. The family is hoping that he will reach his 100th birthday next year.

https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Thompson-31465

I've never actually seen any gravestone that has not been fully engraved.
by Robynne Lozier G2G Astronaut (1.3m points)
My gggramma bought the double headstone with my gggrampa before he died. All she had to do was add his death date, then someone would add hers when she passed... the best laid plans... but she ended up having an adventure, moving from Oklahoma to California to live with one daughter and be near 3 others who had moved... she had spent years in the old home place near her other daughters and wanted to be with the others...she lived a few more years and passed in Ca and they buried her in the same cemetery where her daughters were instead of shipping her body back...most current family thought it was because she remarried but no. So her gravestone with her hubby has no deatj date and she isnt there.
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I think that my most interesting cemetery story I have is about the babies I found were in a family grave at Wombwell, Yorkshire, England.  I live in Wombwell and knew that there was a family grave belonging to the Gyte branch of my family in Wombwell Cemetery.

Whilst searching through Wombwell burial records a few years ago, I discovered that there were several babies buried in the grave that were not listed on the grave stone. To identify the babies I decided to obtain death certificates. I discovered that my grandmother Emily Gyte (https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Gyte-1) had registered the death of two of these babies. After obtaining their birth certificates I discovered they were twins and that she was their mother. She had had them when she was 16 year old, long before she married.

Emily had 14 children. I am sure none of her other children knew that they had twin sisters. When I made this discovery, I felt that  had to keep what I had found a secret, because her surviving children would have been upset to know what I had found. It was a long time before I could tell anyone what I had found. I am sure my mother and my aunts and uncles did not known about their twin sisters, Edith (https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Gyte-50) and Ethel (https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Gyte-51).
by Joan Whitaker G2G6 Pilot (170k points)
Sad that you could not tell them.  I would want to know..
+9 votes

I think my favorite WikiTree-related story about a cemetery is the Gill Family Cemetery. The current owner of the farm where it's located found me through WikiTree and sent me all kinds of info, which is now covered in a Space page: Gill Family Cemetery. It's a wonderful example of why you should add profiles for the siblings of your ancestors!

Robynne - Since that page is in good shape, does sharing it here meet this week's challenge? Or do I need to figure out something that needs done related to a cemetery/tombstone?

by Liz Shifflett G2G6 Pilot (633k points)
NO Liz, that page is perfectly acceptable!!  It is about a cemetery and that is all that is required!! Very nice page too!!
Yay! Thanks Robynne :D
+9 votes
Favorite memory -- my high school boyfriend was very supportive of my weird (for 17 year olds) hobby. He drove us the nearly two hours to visit a cemetery where various relatives were buried. We went off to the side in a still grass cut but no grave stone spot and had a picnic. I love cemeteries. My daughter hates them. I have stacks of photographs of various places and graves. One day I'll dig them out, but as most are on Find A Grave or similar it doesn't seem that urgent. The really wonderful ones had a photo of the deceased on them. So I saw my 3x great grandmother.
by Katrina Whitaker G2G6 Mach 4 (40.4k points)
+9 votes
I like the graves for my grandparents. We visit the Ferraiolo grave every Christmas to put the wreath on. You can see the memorial here: https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/73192889/marco-james-ferraiolo . Grandma Ollie, Vincenzo, Maria, Marco and Vincenzo's second wife, Fortuna are all buried there.

St. Patrick's Cemetery also has the Carrabs buried there too. I think my cousin Raymalene took a pic of that, too.

I digress. We go there every year and clean up the place. St. Patrick's is a nice place. Know how a lot of people think cemeteries are creepy? That one isn't. I guess they keep the grounds clean.

My other grandparents are buried in Amesbury:

https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/8334066

The pic needs to be updated as my grandfather died last year.  St. Joseph's is also well kept compared to most.

Both tombstones provided a lot of info that got me started on this genealogy thing.  What's neat about the Hamel grave is that it mentions how Alfred Hamel Jr also has a memorial at Arlington National Cemetery. That is cool. I should probably check that out some day. You can learn a lot from these tombstones.

The weird thing is that when I asked one of my cousins in Italy for pics of the family graves in San Pietro, they had pictures of the deceased on them. Is that a thing in Europe? Seems like it.
by Chris Ferraiolo G2G6 Pilot (766k points)
edited by Chris Ferraiolo
Chris, it seems to be a tradition among Italian families (and some East Europeans) in various locations.  Here in Michigan where there are large Italian populations, I have seen many gravestones bearing photographs of the deceased.  And as Katrina says in her comment above, it can be nice if you don't already have a photo of your ancestor.
Yeah, it is. =D Definitely!
+10 votes

As a child, I lived two blocks from the Greenwood Cemetery in Vernon, Shiawassee County, Michigan, the small town cemetery where many of my relatives were buried.  I'm old enough to remember Memorial Day here in the United States being called Decoration Day by the older people.  During my childhood it was still observed on the 30th of May, before it became a three-day weekend when everyone goes “Up North” here in Michigan.  Then, it was a homecoming event in Vernon with a parade followed by a dinner at the Methodist Church and out-of-town relatives came to visit the graves and the living.  This cemetery is associated with many good family memories.

On the flip side, it is easy to assume familiarity from childhood means total knowledge.  I walked by Joey Yerkes (1880-1896) many, many times before it dawned on me to ask “Who IS Joey?”   Fortunately, his grave was marked with a stone which had very legible full birth and death dates.  But, unlike others in the Yerkes families, Joey was by himself instead of in a family plot.  So “Whose child was Joey?”

I thought the offspring of known relatives were accounted for and realized Joey didn't match up with the information I had.  My 3xgreat grandfather Jonathan Yerkes and his children were early settlers.  The families of his two sons Charles Reeves Yerkes, my 2x great grandfather, and Joseph Watkins Yerkes accounted for most, if not all, the Yerkes burials in Greenwood cemetery.  Their family plots are directly across from each other, not too far from Joey's grave. 

Although the cemetery began in the 1860's, the records only go back to about 1900.  FamilySearch has Michigan birth and death records for the time period, but the records themselves tend to be incomplete so finding no birth or death record for Joey wasn't a surprise. With a birth date of May 1880, Joey should have appeared on the 1880 U.S. Census with his birth family, but no Joseph born in May showed up, at least not in Shiawassee County.  The obituaries from the Owosso newspapers (the largest town in the county) have been compiled and I already had all the Yerkes accounted for.  Vernon had once had a newspaper, but copies have not survived.

With a few exceptions, the Yerkes surname in the United States links back to the same family who originated in Pennsylvania and had a notable (or notorious) member, Charles Tyson Yerkes, who commissioned a family history in the early twentieth century.  I already had copies of the pages for family from the pre-digitized age on file so it wasn't difficult to take another look and find that great uncle Joseph's two sons didn't have much information about their families and neither had stayed in Michigan.

About the time I began this search, the library at Corunna, the county seat for Shiawassee County, made available the digitized version of the Corunna Journal newspaper which included 1896.  Since I had a death date of 12 December if there were anything it shouldn't be too hard to find. This weekly collected items from the other county newspapers and provided a breakthrough.

In the Vernon locals column in the issue of 17 December 1896 this item appeared:

“Joe, the 15-year-old son of Albert Yerkes, has been seriously ill the past two weeks with appendicitis, but is convalescent.”

The publication date was five days AFTER Joey's death so one definitely shouldn't believe everything in print.  Checking later editions for more information, I found this was the only mention of Joey; one wouldn't know he had died at the time from this source alone.

The pieces began to fit together.  Joey did appear on the 1880 Census with his parents, Albert and Matilda (Hardwick) Yerkes, but as Albert E. born in April not May.  Joey’s father Albert was the son of Joseph Watkins Yerkes so Joey did not belong to some unknown Yerkes family after all.

I think Joey was buried in what was to be the family plot for the Albert Yerkes family, but a few years after his death, the family moved to the western United States. They were living in Sioux Falls, South Dakota in 1904 and then Skagit,Washington by 1910.  His parents and siblings died and were buried out there and Joey ended up by himself back in Michigan.

by Jill Perry G2G6 Mach 4 (44.8k points)
Fascinating story.  I am glad you were able to figure it out.  Hopefully someone from his family will one day appreciate the work you did to connect him to his family.
+7 votes

I only know about this cemetery because my father donated his body to the University of Texas Health Science Center at San Antonio.  His ashes are buried under the marker 1966-1996.  You don’t think about cemeteries being on a University campus but that’s where this one is.

https://www.wikitree.com/index.php?title=Space:University_of_Texas_Health_Science_Center_Memorial-Park

https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/164116697/elzo-weldon-moffett

https://www.findagrave.com/cemetery/2614628/university-of-texas-health-center-memorial-park

by A Nony Mouse Moffett G2G6 Mach 2 (20.4k points)
Definitely an interesting cemetery. Thanks.
+7 votes
One of my memories of my grandmother, Miriam Carey Stewart, was going with her to the Key West Cemetery to weed the family plots.  When I was about 6 years old, I was with her one day when a funeral procession came through the cemetery.  It was the first one I had experienced for a black person (referred to as colored back then).  The procession consisted of a marching band complete in black uniforms and blasting out "When the Saints Go Marching in"  with trombones, trumpets, and other musical instruments. I was shocked and impressed all at the same time.  I had always thought funerals were supposed to be very solemn affairs, but this one was like a big, noisy party.  Grandma explained to me that that was the way black people liked to send off their loved ones to heaven.

https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Carey-1744

About 60 years later, I started a Wikitree Free Space Page for the Key West Cemetery!

 https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Space:Key_West_Cemetery%2C_Key_West%2C_Florida
by Carolyn Martin G2G6 Pilot (283k points)
edited by Carolyn Martin
+7 votes
The rules about cementaries differ in the Netherlands. You rent a grave for 10 or 20 years. You can extend that period as long as someone in the family wants to pay for it. But if no one does, the grave is emptied for a new burial. The bones are reburied in a massgrave and the tombstone is lost. That's why more and moe people choose cremation instead of a burial.

Ther are exceptions to this. Some old graveyards are saved because of their heritage value.

The rules are there because of lack of space in our country.

The oldest graves still in the family ar those of my grandparents near the church in the village where most of my ancestors lived. I still remember something my aunt said the day we buried her son/my cousin.: "In this graveyard I bureid my Grandfather, my father, my brother, my son and my grandson"
by Eef van Hout G2G6 Pilot (189k points)
That is so sad - that noones bones can rest in peace for eternity. Not in the Netherlands at least.
As long as there are descendants who care enought to pay the rent, the graves stay. There is just not enough room to let everyones grave stay for  eternity.. The living need  room too.
I dont find this unusual in any way although I am an American from the US. Many small countries have the same system as The Netherlands, or other systems that seem strange to people who have never had to think about the issue of space. In another country the plot is permanently a family plot when its boughten, but the body is gently lowered into the grave plots and a lever is pushed and the casket is removed after the family leaves the cemetery by the person who does the burial. The casket is only rented, the body is in a cardboard casket liner. The way to keep memories alive is to have huge declarations done by a notary and which is then added to the box holding the family bible.that is also where living people keep their wills. So far I have no connection to the Netherlands but I appreciate your story. Interesting and practical.
+6 votes
In July, 2012, I visited the graveyard of St Mary's church in the tiny village of Brabourne, Kent, England. ( https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brabourne ).

There I found the gravestones of my 6th, 7th and 8th great grandparents.

I knew form on line sources that they were supposed to be there, but it was still a thrill to actually see them.

 

It was a good way to start my genealogical searches in England

8th great grandparents

https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Quested-7
James Quested (1639 - 1719)

https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Sladden-4
Martha (Sladden) Quested (abt. 1646 - 1726)

7th great grandparents

https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Quested-6
Stephen Quested (1673 - abt. 1750)

https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Godden-159
Penelope (Godden) Quested (1681 - 1727)

6th great grandmother

https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Webb-5670
Mary (Webb) Quested (1713)
by Janet Gunn G2G6 Pilot (158k points)
Now that is a real treasure trove!!
The shared gravestone of James and Martha Quested says;

"Here ly ye bodies of James Quested and Martha his wife He died October the 4th 1719 aged 80 years She died January the ?th 172? aged 81(?) years

... Sons and daughters viz James John Stephen Mary Martha"

The gravestone for Stephen Quested says:

"Here lyeth ye Body of Stephen Quested Tyle man of this parish who departed this life ye 30th of August 1750 in the  77th year of his age"

The gravestone for his wife Penelope (Godden) Quested says:

"Here Lyeth ye body of Penelope wife of Stephen Quested ?man who departed this life June 23 1727 aged ... She left behind ? son ... Stephen John John ..."

The gravestone for their daughter in law Mary (Webb) Quested says:

"Here ?ed the body of Mary wife of Stephen Quested who died March ye ... in the --- year of her age
... here lyeth the body of Penelope daughter of Stephen and Mary Quested She died September ye ? 1742 Aged ? months"

There is also a gravestone for the children of Stephen and Penelope Quested:

"Here lyeth the bodies of the children of Stephen Quested and Penelope his wife  Mary ? 1719 10 years old Penelope ?4 years   ?? Weeks  Elizabeth ..."
+6 votes
Your question stirred my memory and made me realize where my fascination with cemeteries came from.

When I was in 5th grade, my parents took my sister and me on a trip to Mississippi, USA to visit some of my Aunts and Uncles that were living there. It was my first long road trip.

It was also the first time my dad ever wore shorts. (I just remembered this also)  My dad got lost, made a u-turn at my mom's urging, had to get out of the car when he saw the red-light, I took a picture of him, and he never wore shorts again.

When we reached our destination, my dad took us to several very old cemeteries. My sister and mom were bored, but I was fascinated. This started a father/daughter tradition which lasted until his illness.

I carried this fascination over into my marriage. Now when we travel, we make sure to visit the local cemeteries, and I am always taking pictures.
by Cheryl Hess G2G Astronaut (1.8m points)
+5 votes

Woerner-46.  Frank Woerner who died young of whooping cough.  He was my grandmother's brother.  She talked about how she hated to hear anyone cough because it reminded her of Frankie.  

As a child we would go to the cemetery (St Peter and Paul on Gravois Road in St Louis, Missouri, USA) and wash the tombstones.  I always got to do the lamb.  

by Laura Bozzay G2G6 Pilot (833k points)

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