Hi J Palotay,
I think many of us use WikiTree to build our family tree, and love isn't the same as genealogy, it doesn't draw a line between the living and those who have passed.
I agree that privacy is an important element of the WikiTree Honour Code. I also think the honour code includes courtesy, and space to learn.
It appears to me that your opinion has been posted in response to a specific member's question - yet many others have been asking the same questions. I wonder if she really deserves to be singled out by criticism on a public website, or if its possible to bring a little more empathy into the discussion?
Just a question.