So she is apparently 'active' as she has accepted the invitation and isn't showing as pending.
Does it mean she has to make one contribution before she shows up? Like setting a privacy level?
This seems too complicated for us to be able to help people get back to where we were before the recent changes. It would be good if invitations could ask if they want the person who invited them to be a co 'profile manager'. If they said yes we could easily do the set ups required.