Hi! I think you might be signed in as your husband? Wilbur's profile is an active WikiTree member. I don't think you can both have the same e-mail in WikiTree, so your profile should have your e-mail as manager & Wilbur's have another e-mail (his), with him as manager. Logged in with Wilbur's e-mail/password, then all the Special stuff (Nav page, relationships, etc.) will be for him, not you. Log off & then log in as you. That should fix it. If somehow both of your profiles have the same e-mail address, then I think you'll need the help of Team Wiki (info [at] wikitree.com).