Teresa, Thank you for the news. I spoke with my sister last night and we do not remember our Grandmother May Ola hardly speaking about her family. We do wish we had been more conscious and asked these vital questions when they were younger and had their memories. We did get to know Uncle Louie (Louis) who was an adorable older man when we knew him., quite a character as was our grandmother May Ola. Yes, May Ola was married to Vilus Bachtenkircher. Apparently, her mother (Mary Ellen Leake) forced her to marry Vilus who was a very mean drunk when she was 17. My mother, Alma, would tell us stories about his beating May (Mary) and his sons. Eventually, she left him when her kids were teenagers. If I remember right, Vilus moved back to Texas and I think was murdered by his girlfriend with a pair of scissors to the heart (payback?). Later, May Ola married George Davidson who was also an alcoholic (do we see a pattern here?) and had a son, Dewain, at the same time her daughter, Alma, was also having a baby. So I have an uncle who is also about my age. Oh, the stories! Anyway, I am so happy to connect with you!