You show her as being born in North Aylesford, which is the registration district in which her birth was registered, not the parish, which censuses show was Northfleet, Kent.
You show her as living in Gravesend in 1871. There's a marriage in Gravesend registration district in the Dec quarter 1873 vol 2a page 651 of Ann Wise. https://www.freebmd.org.uk/cgi/search.pl
One of the other parties on the page is Patrick Moore. In 1881 there's an Annie Moore in North Aylesford workhouse, married, age 27 born Northfleet, which might be her. You need to invest £9-25 in the marriage certificate to see if it's the right Ann Wise.
Her father's birth place is shown in censuses as Whitchurch Oxfordshire, not Whitehead