I saw your post and I thought I could help, but since I don't know your family I went thru google.com to get some answers.Well here goes. ----- I got this thru ancestrylibrary.com so I am hoping that this is right.
Charles Lovelace b. 1696 in Richmond, Wise, Va. and died 5 Dec1755 in Richmond, Wise, Farmham, Virginia. Parents are: Thomas Lovelace and Tabitha Oldham. He married a Bridgett McLaughlin and they had 8 children, He also had one child from another relationship. Bridget McLaughlin 1694- 1764. Their children are as follows;
1. Mary Lovelace - 1716 -1767 Spouse unk
2. William Lovelace - 1723- 1755
3. Elizabeth Lovelace - 1725 - 1792
4. Sarah 1727 - 1767
5. Charles Lovelace -1732 - 1764
6. Lidia Lovelace - 1735
7. John Lovelace 1737 - 1810
8. Thomas Lovelace - 1739 - 1792
Virginia Genealogical Society Quarterly Vol. 27, No 1
LOVELACE FAMILY RECORDS - CONTRIBUTED BY JOANNE LOVELACE NANCE
Thomas and Tabitha (oldham) Lovelace migrated from Richmond Co. Va to Halifax Co around 1766. The following family records were transcribed from a ledger which Thomas started and his youngest son used as a copy book.
Thomas and Tabitha children:
Thomas Lovelace B. Feb 8, 1739 Tabitha Lovelace b. Jan 12, 1745.
Charles Lovelace son of Thomas b. Sept 3, 1766. Bridget Lovelace b. November 3, 1768. Nathaniel B. July 31, 1771, Elizabeth b.April 18, 1773, Ann Lovelace b. March 24, 1775; Thomas Lovelace b. Nov 24, 1776; Tabitha Lovelace b. Dec 11, 1778, died Sep 30 1811. John Lovelace B. Aug 7, 1782 and died Jan 11, 1815.. James Lovelace b. Oct 7, 1782; Sally U. Lovelace b. Nov. 11 and died Feb 10, 1822; Susanna S Lovelace b. June ?; William O. Lovelace B July ______and died July 21st 1826 at Half-past 8 o'clock am.
Charles Lovelace died March 18, 1815 after 14 days illness, -preached his last sermon at Miry Creek meeting house from Psalms 105 part of the 1st verse.
the ages of Charles & Rhody Lovelace sons are:
William Lovelace b. Feb 9 , 1791
Thomas Lovelace died before Feb the 9th 1791. Adkerson O Lovelace b. March 21, 1798; John Lovelace Feb 21, 1800; James Lovelace Jan 27th 1803, Charles Lovelace May 28th, 1805; Natghaniel Lovelace July 28th 1808.
This is all that I found so far. It did not explain who Rhody was but I am assuming that is his 2nd wife. I did not have time to look everyone up If you need more help, please let me know and I will try to find more on the Lovelace's family. Thanks Nancy