Same wih my f-i-l. He saw up close the POWs, and never forgot or forgave. When he was working in Mexico at a high connection job, he was invited to the Japanese Embassy for some get together. There was a showing of the movie, Tora, Tora, Tora, and is was all he could do to stay in his seat and not leave. If he had known ahead of time, he would have made some excuse, not that it would have done any good. He was expected to be there because of those connections.. embassy, CIA, etc. This was a story he told to my wife.