Judy, Dennis' explanation of why your husbands are not shown on your profile is perfect - names of and links to spouses are not displayed on private profiles. Your profile is private because you are living and, although there are options for different levels within private, the most open level is to display your family tree and your biography, but your husbands will still not be shown.
Also, you cannot make your profile public because public and open privacy levels are only available for deceased people, so you'll just have to accept that your husbands' names will not be on your profile. About the only thing you could do is to make your biography public and include links to your husbands' profiles in there - that would display.