I've been here over a year and I'm still learning every day. I don't know how to help with your particular issue, but please know you're not alone. This site can be overwhelming and downright confusing sometimes! But I find it's worth it as you go along, learn new things, and we all benefit from a tree that is standard and well-sourced. Keep going and I'm sure a wiser-than-me WTer will be able to assist with your problem. (This tends to me a wise bunch!)