Greetings to you, too, Mark. Had to sit down and work this out, but by my calcs we would be 4th cousins once removed. At least you still have the Willcocks name - I've gone through 4 ladies, so 4 changes from Dutton.
Sam was a good shrewd businessman from what I have read, although the 1890s depression hurt him. He was the executor of my GG Gfather's estate as well as another Dutton sister in law. He was also involved in a number of community groups, so something of a pillar of the community.
Eliza's death was very sad from what I have come across. Something of a shock/disappointment from the family's perspective.