I am the grandaughter of Melatiah lathrop (Deborah's father). Deborah is the oldest child of sixteen children to Melatiah and Marah/ Marah Lathrop.After Melatiah and Marah were married, they moved to Kent , Connecticut where Marah's parents lived and deeded them land there (Timothy Hatch/ Deborah Newcomb). They lived in Kent from 1739-1755. Deboriah married Nathaniel Gray and she died at the age of 39 and is buried at Dover Plains (Dutchess county) New York. Check Litchfield county, there is a lot of info. there.
If you need any help with the Lathrop's..let me know.