Both Henrys and Minnie (Wilhelmina) in 1895:
"New Jersey State Census, 1895," database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:QL8B-8TDQ : 17 March 2018), Henry Freader in household of Henry Freader, Elizabeth, Union, New Jersey, United States; citing p. 38, household 222, line #1138, Department of State, Trenton; FHL microfilm 888,696.
Probably Henry, Jr's WW II draft registration, but the birthdate differs:
"United States World War II Draft Registration Cards, 1942," database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:X5TP-W4D : 9 March 2018), Henry Freader, 1942; citing NARA microfilm publication M1936, M1937, M1939, M1951, M1962, M1964, M1986, M2090, and M2097 (Washington D.C.: National Archives and Records Administration, n.d.).
There is a suspicious lack of census and other info. I wonder if the original spelling was Frieder?
Two Henrys and Minnie, 1885:
"New Jersey State Census, 1885," database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:6BNW-8MM : 11 March 2018), Henry Frieder in household of Henry Frieder, Elizabeth, Ward 05, Union, New Jersey; citing p. 109, Department of State, Trenton; FHL microfilm 888,640.