Hello Steph, there are 85 references to Hemry B. Deare in the South Africa Archives site, item 46 is a death notice of 1894 (I see he died in 1893, Axbridge, Somerset district, UK, aged 66). The death notice should give wife's maiden name and perhaps the place of marriage (certainly from 1913, maybe before), and parents and children - you know these, NAtional Archives of South Africa, key in Deare, Henry B, the site URL doesn't want to be pasted here, sighs. Kind regards, Neil, South Africa.