Hello Laura, I agree with you completely.
YES BUT (Your Evaluation is Superb, Behold the Underlying Truth), the family you get, birth, or adopted is a complete roll of the dice, unfortunately you, as the child don't get to roll them, so if they come up 7 or 11, you win. Snake eyes or craps, you lose. In my case, I lost both rolls.
If you read all of my comments and replies, you will see, I don't hold my birth parents for becoming a "trophy baby",in a who you know, and how many funny handshakes you know. There is a reason why God doesn't allow some people to have children of there own, knowing the right people is a way around that.
I don't hold it against my birth parents, or parent, but as I have done my research, from my Dna matches, I have found that although I am a "Skeleton in the closet", in the public family tree, I am not the only one.
Also in my responses in this, I am lucky enough to be someone who accepts what I'm dealt, and makes the best hand I can out of it.
I have just contacted someone whom I believe to be my half brother. His response was what I expected, polite, the aroma of "not my mom", in the air, and that he had gotten the same thing from his father's side. He is now getting a Dna test, if we are if we are, that would be nice. If we are and he doesn't want any more contact, well, the reason I took this Dna test in the first place was to match up my birth name with a family, done.
I admire the work the angels do, and I have signed up as an angel, unfortunately, I am dealing with a family illness for the time being, I have let the group know, and will be back as soon as possible.
James