Well, looks like you have merged them Carl. I removed the {{Unsourced}} tag from her Profile as you definitely have some sources there now. Anytime you add sources to a Profile that has the {{Unsourced}} tag in the Bio Text area, you are free to remove it to take it off the Unsourced Profiles list.
Now the Changes tab shows you merged them on the 6th, is your error concerning missing match still appearing?
If so, you may want to go to the row where you are matched to Smith-170011. Redo the Compare and match it to Smith-140385 as Smith-170011 does not exist anymore. To do this, Reject the Match to Smith-170011. This should then bring you back to the Report page. Click on Compare With and put Smith-140385 in the box and accept the Match. Close the Window and go back to your GEDCOMs page and open the file again. It probably has not cleared, so you may need to refresh. I know, more unneeded matches again, but if it works, you should see your Add buttons appear after clearing any new Suggested Matches....hopefully.
Last resort is to reload the original GEDCOM file and start all over again and I would refrain from hitting the Refresh Button. This should only be used if you have not worked on the GEDCOMpare Report for 4 weeks or so to see if someone added a name in your file during the interim.
Best of luck and you may want to take a look at this for hints, helps and tips on GEDCOM files and WikiTree.
GEDCOM FIle Primer