My GGParents were Charles William Gillham (basketmaker, B: maybe 1856 Lambeth, Surrey, UK) & Alice Elizabeth Wheeler (B:Feb 3, 1858 Lambeth, Surrey, UK) who were married on Mar 21, 1878 in St. Phillips, Lambeth.
Charles William Gillham's profile is here... http://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Gillham-28
According to marriage cert, father of CW Gilham B: ~1856, was another Charles William Gillham (builder, deceased) and it appears that his mother was also deceased as at time of marriage (& 1871 census prior) he was living with James Gillham (B: 1827 relationship unknown) and his wife Emma Louisa Hill (B: 1831) at 40 George Street, Lambeth. Emma Louisa Gillham is a witness at the marriage of Charles William Gillham & Alice Elizabeth Wheeler. At the prior census 1861, Charles William jnr was not with James & Emma so I presume that he must be with parents or at least with widowed mother but to date I have been unable to find him?
To complicate life there are a lot of Gillham/Gillam/Gilham s in Lambeth and quite a lot of them are basketmakers ! I've been struggling with this for a few years now.
The only Charles Gilham of the right age living with a widow in 1861 appears to be at Church Street, Chelmsford (Mary Gilham) but this doesn't match the reported birth location. All other Charles of the right age are at home with father's called William who are alive and kicking.
Any help or off-the-wall ideas gratefully accepted.