I have found several family members who died of horrible deaths and diseases. Is it morbid or just a weird fact? Worth noting or should that info be kept private? If it's on the death certificate, it's public information right? Family secrets sometimes condone bad behavior but in this situation is it insensitive?
*See Harry Pierpont (It was really the Pierpont Gang NOT the Dillinger Gang) He was kicked in the head at age 14 by a family cow and was unconscious for a period of time but never saw a doctor, according to his mother. "He was never quite right after that." Frontal lobe damage will make a person aggressive.