I understand, Sandra. What they do is create a FAG for the wife if her name is on the headstone, even if she is still alive. When she dies, I have tried to add the additional information, but they are too lazy to add it for me. Since the initial name and FAG have already been created, it is impossible for me to create another FAG as it will be a duplicate.
I have tried to create a complete FAG and they have told me to delete mine as it was a duplicate even though mine was complete, with all the information necessary, including pictures, and theirs had nothing but a picture of the headstone. According to FAG rules, the lowest number FAG is the original and the other FAG has to be deleted as duplicate if you are asked.
Thanks for responding though. Have a blessed day.