Can't find a marriage for a George Stanley - but, interestingly, I have found a marriage for a George Burke to a Lydia Burnett, groom aged 21, bride age 14, Groom's father William Burke, bride's father John Burnett on 19 June 1855 in Umballa, Bengal, India.
Could 'Stanley' not be a surname, but a middle name? (so he's George Stanley BURKE).
Source: Parish register transcripts from the Presidency of Bengal, 1713-1948, archive ref N-1-87, folio number 411, viewed via findmypast
How certain are you that Ellen West is part of this family? 'my heritage' is not really an adequate source, and she needs a few locations to help us to help you...