Melinda: Over time Surnames change,Van Meter, Venator,Vannator
There is a Mary Van Meter born Feb 11 1757.Father Jacob Van Meter, mother
Letitia Van Meter (nee Strode.11 other siblings.
You need to download Biographie Jacob Van Meter 1723-1798 and read it.
This occured Frederick County Virginia. Jacob also was called Jake.
Since sparse population at the time This could be your answer.If you need more
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