Nancy, once you get one profile looking correct, ie Ref, Ref name usage, and sources, bookmark it, so you will have a quick reference for you to go back to for your formatting. In a couple of weeks, you will wonder why you thought it was so hard!! lol Just keep trying and all of a sudden, it will be easy.
That profile is looking great. One additional thing I would recommend is to put the # in front of each of the children, which will assign a 'number' to each of them. Children with 2nd wife would start with 1 again, but that is to number the children easily from each marriage.