It's important to remember that being a profile manager does not give us carte blanche to alter profiles without regard to original intent, even if we are the creator of the profile.
This issue probably should have been brought to G2G long before it got to the pressure cooker stage.
It's also important to remember that collaboration and communication is a two-way street. If another member lets you know that changes you are making to a profile are conflating two individuals, you need to listen and take another look before it turns into this type of tug-of-war.
I've removed the project box. It should not have been placed until Southern Colonies agreed to manage/co-manage the profile.
Communication should have taken place before you began removing parents and changing data fields even if you knew that what was originally changed was incorrect.
This is the main reason for the Honor Code item about courtesy. To avoid situations exactly like this. It's okay to disagree and when we do it's okay and advisable to get a third opinion before a disagreement escalates into a war.
Happy WikiTreeing to you both.