This seems to be the family in 1850:
https://familysearch.org/pal:/MM9.1.1/MCBB-N8M
and here in 1860: http://www.fold3.com/document.php?doc=46112676&xid=215&p=ma
Year: 1860; Census Place: Seneca, Ontario, New York; Roll: M653_831; Page: 94; Image: 95; Family History Library Film: 803831.
but I can't find them on earlier censuses. I've also searched the birth databases at ancestry.com without success. If you have any death data there may be an obituary that has info.
Are you aware of this tree at ancestry.com?
Owner: keithlathrop
http://trees.ancestry.com/tree/4651855/family?cfpid=6110458728
which doesn't have a father listed, only a guess at a mother "Mary". It has his death on 24 Aug 1866 Geneva, Ontario, NY
No obits on ancestry.com. Sorry I'm not of more help.