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We all know the American West in the 1800's was a rough place to live, but do we really want to know how hard it could be? I have often found myself hoping my great grandmothers enjoyed their lives on the farm, yet I know they must have struggled, toiled, and maybe despaired. What were those farm houses really like? It's pleasant to imagine a clean, cosy place with curtains and hand-made furniture, but what was the reality?
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Lucy Colman, who traveled all over the Midwest in the 1850's speaking at churches with an anti-slavery message, was a frequent guest at Midwestern homes, and she wrote about her experiences:
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"It was a white cottage, with green blinds, a front-yard fence and shrubbery, which really looked inviting. As we drove to the door a young woman opened it with a hearty good-morning, saying, "Come in; you must be very wet." …
"This woman must have been thirty years of age. She was really beautiful… But the dress, or the undress,—she had evidently been giving her baby its natural nourishment, for her bust was entirely uncovered. Her arms, a model for a sculptor, were equally bare with her bosom, as the sleeves to her garment hung in shreds. We went into the house; the odor was choking. Two babies were in a long cradle; … I presume they were washed when they first came into the world, but there was nothing at that time to lead one to suppose the bath had ever been repeated…
When this woman spread her table, she took from the grass a table-cloth, and held it to the fire until it ceased to drip, then put it on the table. The knife she gave me to use would have been greatly benefited had it been on the grass with the table-cloth through the night's rain.
"This lady was a teacher from Vermont. A well-to-do widower had married her. Five children in less than eight years had blessed the union."
From Reminiscences by Lucy N Colman