Thanks Linda.
I requested to be added to two trusted lists of which my cousin is PM of both, one his mother, who's trusted list I am on. The other our common grandfather, whom I can't add to my tree without making a duplicate, because I got an email saying I was added to the trusted list, but I am not according to WikiTree. I did send a re-request to my cousin and am still waiting. Very frustrating for a new WikiTreer trying to add family and correct errors here.