I have hit a snag and was wondering if anyone could shed some light on how to proceed. So here is my slightly shortened long story. I have been fairly consistent with matching my tree to Family Search's Tree and I was feeling that was confirmation that what I was finding was correct. Don't worry, I am not taking information from there and putting it here... I was just checking as I go after the fact and things were lining up. Now I have hit a bump in two of my ancestors: Martha Sands who married Evans and William Miller, father of Joseph Sherill Miller. Let's talk about Martha Sands and maybe that will help me figure out what to do in similar situations in the future.
From what I have found,
Martha Sands was in the household of Jesse Sands and Eliza Sands in 1850 in Dunklin County, MO.
In 1860 Eliza (now Moore) and some of the children were in the household of David Moore in Dunklin County, MO.
By 1870 Martha was in the household of I.B. Evans still in Dunklin County, MO. They had begun their family at this point.
Family Search shows:
Martha Sands in 1850 in the household of Jas Sands in TN and then married to David Moore by 1860 in MO. However, I do not find Martha on the 1860 Census (there is a daughter named Martha but she is under 10 years old).
Recently I have started adding source information to the FS Tree when I have it, but I have not changed family connections there. How do I handle this situation here on Wiki Tree and what should I do on Family Search?
Thank you all for the wonderful answers you have given me in the past. I do appreciate you all. It's nice to feel like I belong even as I learn.