You can propose the merge for the two profiles of James Whaley. If you are the profile manager of one of them, then the PM for the other one will need to approve the merge. If that does not happen, the merge will be approved by default after thirty days. Meanwhile, you can also reach out to the other profile manager or to both profile managers if you are not the PM for one of the profiles. Explain why you think this merge should happen. If the profiles are open, be sure you add sources to back up both marriages and any other information you have.
During the merge, no information should be lost; rather it will be incorporated into the new combined profile including the two wives.