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Lived in South Byfield Parish, Georgetown, Massachusetts
Eleanor Noyes Johnson wrote in 1972 "About Ebeneezer Jackman, your great great great grandfather, he was a plain man, a cordwainer by trade. He was born in Byfield, and his tombstone is beside Abigail's in South Byfield Cemetery. I'm not sure he is buried there for his stone reads "Died on a visit to Bethel Maine". Does this mean something like "Lost at Sea"? We have the correspondence between him and Abigail. He hadn't been to finishing school and his spelling was original, and his phrasing earthy. There is, however, a liveliness and humor in his letters that hers lack. As I have said before, Abigail was a great one for saving souls (she said of the children she taught they were so many souls to save). She could hardly bear to believe that dear Ebeneezer was destined for hell fire and brimstone. Something else, more down to earth, held up their marriage. She would have to come and live with Ebeneezer's parents, her aunt and uncle. She wanted a home of her own. Ebeneezer felt duty bound to care for his parents. Abigail put him off and put him off. Finally when she was twenty seven and he was thirty odd he wrote her. The haying, he sid, would be over in august, and he could come to Bethel. He suggested that she get brother John to get the preacher. He did not say, but strongly implied, that he had had enough of shilly shallying. Brother John got the preacher. Maybe Ebeneezer, who died long before Abigail, doesn't seem brave to you, but he was, I think a man of integrity. More than this, he just wouldn't pretend that on some given moment the Lord had said, "Ebeneezer, you're one of the Saved." Surely in New England in those days it would have been easier to give in, to pretend for the sake of peace. Ebeneezer, given the odds, preferred going to Hell. Personally, I find him a favorite ancestor."
Byfield Parish Cemetery, Byfield, Essex County, Massachusetts, USA
Mary Adams Rolfe, Ancestry chart for Robert Jackman Noyes, listed as maternal great grandfather
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