Much of the following biography was provided to Chelley Fallang Patterson by Linda Dean via correspondence. Census and other public data has been used to fill in details of specific, recorded events. Items in quotes were take directly from said correspondence.
EARLY YEARS
Mallory W Calhoun was born in New York state on July 16, 1869, the seventh of nine Children.
In 1870 he was living with parents Davis (43, a farmer and land owner) and Polly (39) in the town of Brownville, Jefferson County, NY:[1]
The places of birth for all family members is listed as New York. Neither Davis or Polly indicate having a father or mother of foreign birth.
In 1875, Mallory (6) was living with parents Davis H (47, a farmer) and Polly A (45) in Orleans, Jefferson County, NY with four other siblings. All the children listed are:[2]
Older sisters Clista and Ana/Ann were married and out of the household by this time.
At about the age of nine, Mallory moved with his family to Iowa.
In 1880, Mallory (10) was living in Fertile Township, Worth County, Iowa with parents Davis (52, a farmer) Polly (48) and siblings all born in New York state: [3]
On this census, Davis lists his father's birthplace as South Carolina and his mother's birthplace as New York. Polly lists her father's birthplace as Vermont and her mother's as Massachusetts. There is a notable Calhoun clan who established the Long Cane Settlement in South Carolina in 1756 after having lived in Virginia for a time. As yet, no concrete connection can be made between Davis (born about 1828) in New York to the four sons [4]
Also on the 1880 Census, living in the next dwelling is John C. Calhoun (48) and also born in New York state, wife Maria (41) and children Carrie (12, born in NY), Eben (10, born in NY), Earl (5, born in IA) and Abby (2, born in IA). This would appear to be Davis' younger brother. However
MARRIAGE
Ida Amelia Dopp was born in Wisconsin on April 5, 1879. Her father's name was Sylvester Dopp, her mother's name was Ida C. Sprague. As a young girl she went with her parents to Iowa where they lived in and around Clear Lake in Cerro Gordo County. It is unknown what became of Sylvester Dopp, but her mother remarried a Mr. Truman Damuth (farmer, also born in Wisconsin) and had two sons, Harry and Walter, and a daughter, Cora Belle. These were Ida's half siblings. In 1895, the family were living in Cerro Gordo County and 16-year old Ida was using her step-father's surname. Walter (10), Harry (5) and Cora (infant) were also in the household.[5]
Mallory and Ida were married in Clear Lake, Iowa on November 18, 1895.[6]
FATHERHOOD
The first three children were born in Clear Lake:
In 1900, the family was living in Clear Lake. Mallory (30) and Ida (21) had George (4) and Violet M (2) living with them along with with Mallory's father Davis H (72) and brother Seymour F (29). [10]
In 1901, the family moved to South Dakota sometime after daughter Bertha Lucile "Celylu" was born on May 14, 1901 in Clear Lake. Her birth record gives her mother's full maiden name as Ida Amelia Dopp (many records only state Ida A Dopp).[11]
The 1905 states that the family had lived in South Dakota for four years and states 4 year old Celylu's was born in Iowa, so this corroborates the 1901 move.[12] This Census gives Mallory's place of birth as Canada. All other sources say New York. [13] The family lived on Section 29 T.107 R.50 in Jefferson Township, Post Office of Colman, Moody County, SD.
Davis was not listed on the 1905 Census suggesting that he passed away between 1900 ad 1905.
On April 26, 1910, Mallory W (40, transcribed Mellory W) and Ida A (30, transcribed Pela A) and four kids appear on the census for Fremont Township in Moody County, South Dakota. Mallory's brother Seymore F (38) also resides with the family listed as a farm hand. [14]The farm in Moody County was about 20 miles northwest of Flandreau. Marvin was born there in 1909, his twin sister was stillborn and is buried in the grove. The farm was located on the south east quarter of Section 10 in Jefferson Township and was later Marvin Pickard's farm. [15]
Note: The 1910 Census states that this family had five children born and four now living. This supports the story that Marvin had a stillborn twin.
Esther was born in 1911 and Clista in 1913 at the midway farm. Marvin and Esther were baptized on November 19, 1911 at St. Peter Catholic Church in Colman, SD. The next year, on June 8, 1912, mother Ida was baptized as an adult. On March 29, 1914 Klistiealerth Maria "Clista" was baptized.[16] "Uncle Seymore lived with the family until he died December 8, 1914 at the farm in Fremont township"[17]
The 1915 South Dakota State Census for Bertha Calhoun (14, born in Iowa) states her religion as Catholic. [18] Marvin (5) living in Rutland (Lake County) in 1915 gives no church affiliation.[19]
"Mallory had many different jobs and the family moved frequently. He farmed, worked at a meat market in Rutland, delivered main a horse-drawn buggy in Wentworth, and worked at a creamery i Iroquois. He built the road south of Brookings by Clifford and Vivian's house with a freznel pulled by horses. He spent many hours reading the Bible and was a good singer." [20]
"Josephine was born in 1915, Vivian in 1919 in Wentworth." By 1919, Mallory and Ida's eldest daughter, Violet had her first child, Orviel. "
The 1920 census shows the family living in Wentworth SD -- Mallory W (50, a rural route mail carrier, name misspelled Malory W), Ida (40), George (23), Marvin (10), Esther (8), Clista (6), Josephine (4) and Vivian (2 months). Next door, Violet (Calhoun) Fallang lived with her husband Joseph and 3 month old son Orviel.[21]
"Ira was born in 1921. Mallory was working in Iroquois and the family was living in Hayti at the time. Ida was alone with the children when she went into labor., Marvin was sent to get the doctor while Clista and Esther stayed with their mother."
"Esther remembers an experience when she was about nine or ten years old. It had been a very dry year and the water in the well was low. Her mother lowered her down in the well by a rope to get water!"
The 1925 South Dakota State Census lists M W Calhoun married in 1895 to Ida Dopp as of the Catholic religion. [22]Family lore has it that Mallory left the Catholic faith during hard times when he was being asked to tithe his only cow. This may be true since Mallory did not have a Catholic funeral -- and must have happened some time after 1925.
In 1930, the census shows the family living in Egan, Moody County. SD.[23]
"Josephine and Esther looked so much alike that Mallory would tell them apart by the color of their eyes. Ira and Clista had curly har and Clista claims she was her father's favorite."
By 1940, Mallory and Ida are still in Egan and Ira (1) has a job. "Mallory was very unhappy when each of his daughters decided to get married and move away. It seems he even took a swing at Clifford, who was bigger and stronger being fresh out of the service. Ida told him that he shouldn't have done that -- he agreed...he'd hurt his hand."
"Mallory had a strange affliction. Although he was unable to hear Ida talking to him in the same room, he was able to hear a baby cry in another room!"
Mallory and Ida's last residence together was in Egan where they had a large garden and many flowers. It was not always rosy for them, though. There was often a fight when their old age pension came about how the money would be spent."
Mallory died August 17, 1949 at the age of 80. He was staying in Estelline, SD at the home of his daughter, Clista. His cause of death is listed as pneumonia due to carcinatosis, due to carcinoma of the rectum. Another significant condition was senility. The Reverand Gus Van Tassel served as Pastor for the funeral." Gus is still living as of the writing of this in October 2017. He is the husband of Mallory's granddaughter Doretta, known as "Sally," daughter of his eldest daughter, Violet (Calhoun) Fallang.
Moddy County Enterprise, August 18, 1949 MALLORY W. CALHOUN DIES AT ESTELLINE
Mallory W. Calhoun of Egan died Wednesday morning at 2 a.m. at Estelline, at the home of his daughter Mrs. Clista Collins. Services at the Davis Funeral home here, will be Friday August 19, at 2 p.m. He will be buried in Lampson cemetery. Reverend G.K. Van Tassel of Rockham will officiate.
Mr. Calhoun was born in New York state. He moved to Iowa and later moved to South Dakota. He farmed in Moody County region for many years and moved to Egan in his later years.
He was married to Ida Dopp on November 18, 1894.
He is survived by his widow and nine children, three sons and six daughters; also by one brother Orin Calhoun. The three sons are George of Canton, Ira of California and Marvin of Rutland. The daughters are Mrs. Violet Fallang, Rutland, Mrs. Bertha Hanson, Flandreau, Mrs, Esther Bostic, Rock Springs, Wyo., Mrs. Ila [Clista]Collins, Estalline, Mrs. Josephine Arndt, Mason City, Iowa, and Mrs. Vivian Clark, Aurora. He is survived by 29 grandchildren.
Pallbearers were Duane Fallang, Elinor Halseth, Arnold Nelson, Martin Hanson, Jr., Edward Collins and Wesley Calhoun, grandsons.
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