Wivenhoe : St Mary the Virgin : Register of unspecified type : "Parish Register" database, FreeREG (https://www.freereg.org.uk/search_records/5818280ee93790ec8bd40384 : viewed 15 Mar 2021) baptism Susannah Girling 04 Mar 1820 (This maybe her)
Marriages Jun 1861 Girling Susannah Gravesend 2a 454 Spratt George Gravesend 2a 454;
1881 England Census Susannah Spratt Age: 57 Estimated Birth Year: abt 1824 Relationship to Head: Wife Spouse: George Spratt Gender: Female Where born: Colchester, Essex, England https://search.ancestry.com.au/
These maybe her parents. Father forename Joseph Mother forename Sarah Father surname GIRLING Person abode Wivenhoe Father occupation Mariner
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