Lola Fern was born August 2, 1931, the daughter of Lafe Gray and Floral Maple Gray.[1]
Tuberculosis very much shaped Lola Fern's life. Her mother, Flora, was diagnosed when Lola Fern was young (10-12) and was admitted to the Arkansas Tuberculosis Sanitorium [2]. Lola Fern was sent to live with her Grandma Gray Martha Addaline (Killion) Gray , then her Aunt Osie Osie Belle (Maple) Richardson and finally to her Grannie Maple Martha Levina (Clayton) Maple. When Lola Fern was old enough she moved to the Sanitorium and lived with Dr. Dicky where she did childcare and where she could visit her mother.
Dr. Dicky |
Mom and Daughter |
Many of the patients worked at various jobs within the sanitorium. Fern worked in the laundry, as did Rose Catlett. Fern and Rose became friends and remained friends for the rest of their lives.
Rose and Fern |
In April of 1950,[3] Fern was 18 years old, living at the Sanitorium, and working as a waitress. She worked 49 hours the week before the census was taken.
On October 18, 1952 she married Bill Conner in Logan, Arkansas. [4][5] They were married at the court house. Together they had 2 daughters and a son, followed by 7 granddaughters, and 7 great-grandchildren.
The whole family in May of 2009 |
Greatgrandma and Sammy |
Fern's greatest joys were family, babies, and her yard. After dealing with multiple health problems, Fern died on the 12th of January, 2017. Her body was cremated and her ashes are with her family.
Beloved Wife and Mother |
Images from Fern's childhood, as well as other Gray family photos can be found at Gray Family Photos and Sources
Images from Fern's married life as well as other Conner family photos can be found at Conner Family Photos & Sources.
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Categories: Mariposa, California | Camarillo, California | El Rio, California | Booneville, Arkansas | Cremated, Ashes With Loved Ones | Arkansas Tuberculosis Sanatorium
TB spread such fear that Mom drilled into each of us kids that we were to NEVER eat or drink after any one else. Food left on a plate went down the garbage disposal. A cookie was never shared. I remember that when my own children were born it took me a long time before I would let them drink from my glass. Rebecca (Conner) Wooster
edited by Rebecca (Conner) Wooster