Living in Oberlin Ohio in 1861 when daughter Lena was born. Husband Henry was running the Oberlin Inn.
Ancestry.com has multiple records of a Julia Haines (or Haynes) marrying a Henry Palmer. But she was born in 1815 and Henry in 1810 which seems unlikely to be having a daughter in 1861. This Julia Haines was born in Hartford CT, married in either Trumbull or Ashtabula counties OH and died in Cuyahoga county OH. Some records had birth location as Clinton Co. OH. All had 1815 as the birth date.
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