Benjamin Haviland, son of Benjamin Haviland & Abigail Mott, was born in 1690 in Flushing, NY. 
He married Charity Farrington, daughter of John Martin Farrington & Elizabeth Chandler.  Note: there is a typographical error in Josephine C. Frost's The Haviland Genealogy in regards to their marriage. She wrote:
BENJAMIN HAVILAND, son of Benjamin and Abigail (Mott) Haviland, b. prior to 1698; m. Charity Farrington (?) of Flushing, May 16, 1724. Letters of adm. were granted to Charity on his estate." 
There should be a period after "Flushing" and a comma after "1724." Compare with a record in the Abstracts of Wills for New York State:
William Burnet, Esq., Captain-General and Governor. Whereas, BENJAMIN HAVILAND, late of Rye, in the County of Westchester, died intestate, Letters of Administration are granted to his wife, Charity Haviland, May 16, 1724. 
According to the History of Rye, Benjamin conveyed a farm of one hundred and thirty acres in Harrison to his son Ebenezer. (County Record, lib. G. P. 6).  "Benjamin owned land adjoining his father's and brothers' as will be noted under his father's real estate records." 
Death & Burial
He died 16 May 1724 in Rye, NY.  It would seem that he died a couple years before his father, at the young age of 34, and since they both have the same name and died in Rye, this has caused some genealogical confusion.
Primary (transcribed): Property record (transfer of ownership to son Ebenezer) from County Record, per Baird, History of Rye.
Primary (transcribed): Abstracts of Wills. Vol. II. 1708-1728. New York State.
Secondary: Baird, Charles W. History of Rye, Chronicle of a Border Town - Westchester County, New York 1660-1870 - Including Harrison and The White Plains till 1788. Camden, ME: Picton Press, 1871 (re-printed 1994).
It may be possible to confirm family relationships with Benjamin by comparing test results with other carriers of his Y-chromosome or his mother's mitochondrial DNA.
Y-chromosome DNA test-takers in his direct paternal line on WikiTree: