Gail (Irvin) Cox
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Gail (Irvin) Cox

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Gail A. Cox formerly Irvin aka Benson
Born 1940s.
Ancestors ancestors
Sister of [private sister (1940s - unknown)], [private brother (1950s - unknown)] and [private brother (1950s - unknown)]
Descendants descendants
Mother of [private son (1970s - unknown)]
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About our Family Tree

If you are a family member, even a distant one, get in touch with me and I'll put you on the trusted list so you can see our entire tree.

About Me

Writing this in 2016 I'm an almost 70 year old grandmother of four who has discovered genealogy as a hobby and loves the idea that it is something of value I can give my family. My biggest regret is that I didn't get this hobby younger in life when I could have recorded more family stories.

My husband and I currently live in North Georgia in a 117 year old antebellum which is a constant work in progress. Anyone who has ever owned an old house knows that it is truly a daily love/hate relationship.

Our "This Old House"

We bought our home over thirty years ago when the sellers were just looking for someone who would tear it down in exchange for architectural antiques so they could sell the land. It was in VERY bad shape.

Luckily I was smart enough to marry a guy who can fix just about anything. So now after decades of work it looks like Scarlett could prance out the front door.

We are getting up there in age and my fella needs to get off 40 foot ladders. A few years back he painted the entire outside of that big house himself with a brush and roller. Two coats. At our age that isn't going to happen again.

It is a constant war between us and the squirrels that seem to have the idea that wooden houses were put there for them to chew on. See those columns? The base under one went bad and my resident genius figured out a way to lift that column all alone with no help and install a new base under it. I'm telling you it pays to marry someone who can not only move your world but can also figure out a way to move a tall column by himself when that needs to happen. I won the lottery the day we married.

But now our "This Old House" is for sale. Time to move on to a new chapter. We will be moving from almost 6,000 square feet to a little over 600 and leaving Georgia for a place on the ocean in Florida. In exchange for giving up all that space my new genealogy office will have an ocean view, and I'll never again have to hate the very sight of a squirrel:

Our "This New House"

Another huge advantage of moving to Florida is that my grandkids are growing up fast. Pretty soon they'll be teenagers and far more likely to want to spend time with grammy and grandpa if we have a beach to offer.

I'm currently writing a story for my grandkids what it was like to grow up in Cocoa Beach, Florida in 1950's. After opening his law office my father was heavily involved in city government, getting Cape Canaveral hospital built, starting the Cocoa Beach Rotary club and developing real estate. Today Cocoa Beach is wall to wall condos and no longer completely dependent on the government and missiles flying through the air from Cape Canaveral. Big change.

When my family arrived in Cocoa Beach the mid 50's it was difficult (almost impossible) to find housing. Government contractors had hired people who when they arrived and found there was no housing. We lived for a short time on the dirt road that was Orlando Avenue before my father finally was forced to rent two houses (two or nothing), and agree to buy the furniture in both just to get a small two bedroom concrete block home for his family which included four kids. That house we rented was at the end of Meade Ave on the beach where some years later Rick Stottler developed the Cocoa Beach pier. At the time Meade Avenue was an over grown dirt road where snakes were a frequent sight but our backyard was miles of what was then very thinly populated beach. The picture below is me holding my brother where the pier is now, looking toward the cape with nary a building in sight. Now it hotels, condos and vacation resorts.

I remember the first red light being installed in Cocoa Beach celebrated on the front page of the local paper two issues in a row. My sister and I would walk alone a mile and a half on the beach to Jake's Bowling Alley for a soda because it was the only place that was air conditioned and to us all that cold air was a treat and a marvel. In those days kids didn't need as much watching as they do today. The television reception was a couple of black and white fuzzy channels that didn't broadcast past eleven at night, no one we knew had air conditioned homes, and our telephone number was just four digits.

After a time we moved to the newly built Convair Cove in Cocoa Beach and after four or five years to a sprawling house at the end of Surf Drive where we were once again living directly on the ocean. A close family friend and client of my father's was Jack Moline who also served with my father as a city commissioner. I babysat for he and his wife more weekends than I can count. Jack Moline later developed Cape Winds where John and I have just purchased what will soon be our new home. Life moves in circles.

Growing up I was privileged to watch history being made right at my door. When I was a young adult I worked in the Cape Canaveral Administration Building as a documents security librarian until I got itchy feet and took myself and my high level security clearance and went off to conquer Washington D.C.

Then I got married. Moved to Germany for a year while he finished his time in the army. Came back. Moved to California. After a few years we had a child. I got myself unmarried, the first in my family ever to get a divorce. Moved back to the Cape and then after a few years, with my son in tow, followed my parents when they retired to North Georgia. I sold a little real estate and then met a southern guy and got married again. Built a new family. And lived pretty much happily ever after.

(I have a little sign in my office that reads: To marry a second time is the triumph of hope over experience. Thank God, hope won.)

For decades John and I owned a trade school which taught high end wallcovering business owners. By the time we retired we had graduates in all fifty states and seven countries. As a part of that business we worked with all the major wallcovering manufacturers developing and testing their new products. John was in demand as a speaker as well as a teacher while I worked on marketing our business. Later I taught myself video editing and web design and we released a video course which was one of the first of its kind.

After our retirement I kept myself busy with designing and programming websites and teaching newbies how to navigate the internet. The internet was, and is, this bookworm's delight. I worked with the first search directory on the internet (dmoz) which supplied the newly formed google with content for its searches. I bought and sold domain names and did research using all the tools the internet supplied. It was a heady time. For me it was like discovering all the riches of the largest libraries at my fingertips. Pretty much heaven on earth.

I'm always happy to meet distant cousins and will gladly share any family information that I have.

Essay Pages on Wikitree and in Google Docs

I have found essay writing to be sometimes easier to do and read on google docs when illustrations need to be put in the midst of a description. Therefore some of the links below will take you to my shared google docs. I have put links on those essays back to this page so you will find it easy to navigate back. The links to google doc essays open in a new window or tab.

  1. A Family Story
  2. Unintended Consquences and Family Trees.
  3. A list of my family names and where they came from fround by clicking: FAMILY NAMES
  4. The ship Johan Simon Heller and his father Johann Christoph Heller came to America on is The Winter Ship Galley.
  5. The 1903 book that contains the genealogy of the Duryea family is the Documentary History of the Nederdeutsche Gemeente

New York

  1. Links and more can be found for Village of Sea Cliff
  2. Brookville, Long Island, New York Church that played a strong part in Duryea family history Wolver Hollow Dutch Reform Church
  3. Long Island Cemeteries. A page giving information on Long Island Cemeteries that have a relationship to our Tree. Long Island Cemeteries
  4. Quaker Records: Jericho Meeting


Family Story

  1. Page on how municipalities work in Pennsylvania. Municipalities Summary
  2. A look at the Delaware River Gap in Pennsylvania. The Gap
  3. Heartbreaking Destruction in Philadelphia The Destruction of Monument Cemetery.
  4. Middle Smithfield Township Information
  5. Smithfield Township, Monroe County, Information
  6. Stroud Township Information
  7. Monroe County Information
  8. Shawnee Information
  9. Poplar Valley, Stroud Township
  10. Pike County Information
  11. Northampton County
  12. Prospect Cemetery
  13. Shawnee Presbyterian Church
  14. Neighbors Unrelated people who were living in Monroe County at the same time of my ancestors.
  15. Asylum Township Information
  16. Mt. Bethel Presbyterian Cemetery

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To aid WikiTree in the administration of my account should I be incapacitated, or in the event of my death, I hereby give permission for all private profiles I'm managing to be transferred to the following WikiTreers, whether or not they are currently on the Trusted Lists:

Paul Irvin Cindi Irvin Bill Irvin

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  • private children's names (1)
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Hello, Gail,

Thank you so much for responding to our check-in for the Miltary and War Project.

We are sorry to hear that you are not currently active, but we understand that life happens and interests shift as we grow our shared tree and that some members may have moved on to projects more pertinent to the branches they are currently building. Please know that you will always be welcome to rejoin should your interests shift back in this direction.

Thank you so much for your participation; we genuinely appreciate it.

Deb ~ Volunteer Coordinator

posted by Deb (Lewis) Durham
Hi Gail. I believe I'm your 5th cousin once removed. Our common ancestor is Johann Philip Fetterman, b. 1761 My line is Johann Philip -> Philip -> Catherine Ann & Cornelius Starner -> Catherine Jane and William Llewelyn Haney -> George -> Beatrice & Ted May -> Jean and Walt Williams -> me
posted by Todd Williams
Hello, Gail! I'm setting up categories for the new Palatine Migration project. While looking for existing content that might have been waiting for these categories, I ran across your page about The Ship Winter Galley. Although it looks like you created it mostly for your own family, I think it would be of interest to other Palatine descendants (possibly including other descendants of people on this ship) wanting to know what our ancestors went through. Would you be willing to consider adding it to Category:Palatine Ships? (That's an existing category that I found and "adopted" into the new project.) And maybe you'd even considering joining us in the project.  :-) See the page Space: Palatine Migration for information.
posted by Ellen Smith
Hello Gail, I would like to be added as a Categorization Project Member. Will you add the badge to my profile. My family originated from England and (or) the United Kingdom, so, would like to try my hand at categorization of them. Also, do some in Military and the categorization of the LDS Pioneers. Will be slow at it as I'm new at this and am still not too good at working on computer so will have to learn. Thanks, for all you do.
How goes the Mac Interest Group? I have added my name to the Category page. E Lauraine Syrnick just had a Mac related issue on G2G which I hope I helped her with. And recently had a conversation on G2G about using Parallels and the new MacBridge for Rootsmagic. Just wondering if we want to do a little advertising and promote this group?
posted by Michael Stills
One or more photos you recently uploaded is a nominee to be our Family History Photo of the Week.

We'll feature the winner on the main WikiTree home page all next week and share it on our social networks. I assume you wouldn't mind having the photo featured like this, if it were to win. If for some reason you wouldn't want this, let me know right away. We could remove it from the list of nominees if you let me know before Friday. Also, it isn't necessary, but if you have any more information about the photo or the person, I am sure members of the group would love to hear any stories or information that adds background color. You can add the additional information in the comment box here underneath the photo. Thank you!

posted by Abby (Brown) Glann
Hi Gail,

One of your recently uploaded photos is a nominee in our "Family History Photo of the Week." We'll feature the winner on the main WikiTree home page all next week and share it on our social networks. I assume you wouldn't mind having the photo featured like this, if it were to win. If for some reason you wouldn't want this, let me know right away. We could remove it from the list of nominees if you let me know before Friday. Also, it isn't necessary, but if you have any more information about the photo or the person, I am sure members of the group would love to hear any stories or information that adds background color. You can add the additional information in the comment box here underneath the photo. Thank you!

posted by Abby (Brown) Glann
Hello Gail! I'm a new member working on a MacBook Pro. I recently attempted to upload my family tree in the ged format. The file was called: Rays family tree.ged Wikitree indicated that the upload was successful however it doesn't show up when I ttempt to view it on my wikitree page? Can you give me some advice on this matter?
posted by Raymond Tharaldson
Gail: I have an unnamed person as this is what I did I was entering a Son to my Grandfather and did not go back to the Grandfather to enter the data and this needs to be removed or something or a merge I am not sure how to change it
Hi Gail, Isaac Bédard is here twice as the husband of Marie Girard-145. So we have Bédard-243 and Bedard-38 (without the accent), which are the same person. Is the accent difference the reason why two husbands of the same name were attributed to Marie Girard ?

So, with French names if we put or not the accent, will the similar names be located ? I hesitated to write accents because sometimes they are weirdly interpreted in some programs. Please tell me if they should be there.

Thanks !

Susie Humbeutel-1

posted by Susie Humbeutel

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