1871 Census shows Henry 47, wife Mary A 50, son Henry scholar 16, niece Eliza Paget 16 (Eliza's mother died in 1863).
1881 Census shows Henry 57, wife Mary Ann born Mayfair age 55. Mary's age here is inaccurate, she's lost a few years! She would have been 60 in 1881. Son Henry dressing case maker age 26, servant Eliza Skinner 26.
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