Margaret was born in 1830.
Marriage record Michael O Dea and Margaret McCarthy 1854 https://registers.nli.ie/registers/vtls000634748#page/80/mode/1up
https://rootsireland.ie/clare/view_detail.php?recordid=286423&type=bch&recordCentre=clare&page=14
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