The death certificate of her son, Beach, gives her name as Violette Basset and her birth location as Newtown, Connecticut. This birth location is not supported by any other source. The Barbour Collection, for Stratford, shows an Ann(Aner) V. Bassett that married George Merritt. The 1850 Census shows her name as "Anna B." When spoken B and V sound very similar, so it may simply be a transcription error. It is possible that all these sources represent the same person, or more than one person.
Therefore, it appears that Violetta:
m1. Stratford, 4 Jan. 1824 George Merritt from Huntington
m2. Stratford, 13 June 1830 James Alaby.
Sources
U.S., Newspaper Extractions from the Northeast, 1704-1930 (New Haven Columbian Register, Connecticut, 24 Sep 1853)
Alaby, Anna V., Monroe, age 52 yrs. 8 mos. 20 das. [Birth 22 Dec 1800]
1853: "Alaby, Anor V. Monroe Wife of James P. Sept.11 age 52"
The Barbour Collection of Connecticut Town Vital Records - White, Lorraine Cook, ed. (Genealogical Publishing Co., Baltimore, MD, 1994-2002) Vol. 1-55. Stratford, Page 101.
Aner V. MERRITT - MERRET, MERRETT 1830 Aner V., m. James P. Alaby, June 13, 1830 Marriage Original Volume A, Page 33
An[n]e V. MERRITT - MERRET, MERRETT 1830 An[n]e V., of Trumbull, m. James P. Ataby, of Stratford, June 13, 1830, by Oliver Sykes Original Volume A, Page 27
George MERRITT - MERRET, MERRETT, of Huntington, m. Viletta Bassett, of Stratford, Jan. 4 1824, by Rev. Roswell Hawks
(NEHGS, Boston, 2011) Vol. Stratford, Page 4. Bassett, Viletta, of Stratford, m. George Merret, of Huntington, Jan. 4, 1824, by Rev. Roswell Hawks. Vol. A, Page 5.
Beach J Alaby, James Alaby, 'Beach's father', married Miss Violetta Bassett, and they had three children, of whom Beach was the youngest. The article states that his father James was born in Newtown, as was he and his siblings.
Alaby, Harriet, m. Sheldon Tyler, of Washington, Conn., June 5, 1831, by Stephen Booth, J.P. Vol.A Page 35
Alaby, James P.* of Stratford, m. An[n]e V. Merritt, of Trumbull, June 13, 1830, by Oliver Sykes *(Written "James P. Ataby") Vol A Page 27
Allaby, James P., m. Aner V. Merrett, June 13, 1830
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DNA Connections
It may be possible to confirm family relationships with Anor by comparing test results with other carriers of her mitochondrial DNA.
However, there are no known mtDNA test-takers in her direct maternal line.
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